Get six-pack abs without feeling skinny or feeling too light

How do you get a six pack without getting skinny or feeling too light?

A lot of our clients who want to have six-pack abs and look big, strong and athletic are stuck in a limbo of one of two places:

  1. They don’t want to “cut” because they already feel too small and too light. There’s something psychologically damaging about seeing their weight drop when they step on the scale or seeing their arms feel small in the sleeves of their tee.
  2. They don’t want to “bulk” and become even pudgier than they already are and become overweight. In the past, with their bulks, they really only see their gut get bigger—not their arms, chest, shoulders, etc.

I was actually in this exact same scenario a few years ago. What happened was that one bad bulk made me pudgy. I was still pretty strong at that point (I was deadlifting over three plates), so I then decided to cut. But then I ran into a problem with my cut, and I lost a ton of strength and (seemingly) kept all my fat.

It was a couple of years until I found a solution that worked for me.

What was it?

It was shifting my priority from calories (weight gain and weight loss) to getting stronger.

This effectively changed the emphasis away from diet and instead over to training stimulus.

A stronger muscle is a bigger one. Research has found that in powerlifters, muscle size predicts their strength (2019 study), and in one study on young, hobby lifters, they found that those who looked the biggest were the strongest (2017 study) (Hat tip to Shane for these refs,

So focusing on strength fixes these two problems

  • Scared of cutting and getting smaller? If you’re getting stronger and hitting new personal records each week, you don’t need to worry about muscle loss as you’re almost certainly building muscle. It breaks the psychological part of feeling smaller—since you’re at your very strongest, and you can trust in the process.
  • Scared of bulking and getting too fat? If you’re getting stronger and hitting new personal records, then the good news is that some of that weight gain will certainly be new muscle (and if you’re gaining slowly enough, you can minimize fat gain.) It breaks the psychological part of worrying about only gaining fat. If you’re breezing along and adding 10–15 pounds to your bench every month, it won’t be too long before you’re benching another plate. When you decide to lean out, you won’t have the fear of being small because you’ll be pretty damn strong.

As a lifelong skinny guy, at that point, I felt more comfortable with being leaner and smaller than fatter and bigger. So I went for a cut and focused on strength. In a few months, I was hitting new PRs while getting lighter and burning fat. Ever since then, I’ve just been focusing on getting stronger.

Take Jarrett, who’s going through our True Gains beta 2.0 program.

Before working with me, he was fat-fat (his words) and managed to burn off over 60 pounds by himself (which is awesome.) But now, he was in that same limbo of wanting to be both leaner and bigger. He said he could cut the fat fairly easily but always gained fat whenever he bulked.

So we put him on a cut to start and got him lean enough to begin seeing his abs while focusing on his strength. At that point, he was now his strongest ever and leanest ever. Then we put him on a bulk, but focusing mainly on strength. He wanted to go all out, so he put the hard work in and was doing a 5-day lifting program, and he gained 10 pounds in 2 months. He’s now 8 pounds heavier than when he started, he’s leaner, and he’s been hitting new personal records. I’d say he’s crushing it. 

Skinny-Fat Body Transformation

Diet matters—don’t get me wrong. But if you focus on developing strength, you’ll know that you’re directly heading towards your goal. Don’t put the diet first to drive your weight changes—use training to drive an adaptation to be stronger—then use your diet to recover and grow your muscles back stronger. Make sure that the cart is mounted *after* the horse.

If you want to know the exact steps that Jarrett and my other clients are currently using to become stronger, bigger, and leaner—especially if you’re a busy desk-worker like Jarrett and me—then I suggest you grab True Gains.

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